Same for me
I got my Transformer 3 weeks ago and the docking just a few days ago. While i didn't have any issues while charging the TF with the cable, when i received the docking and tried to connect it with the TF, i noticed that first it wouldn't (software-) connect at all and then it wouldn't sit on the docking at all.. I had read that it connects really smoothly, so i didn't push it hard at all. But then, I noticed what you see on the following photo:
The connector on the TF is like misplaced on the right side, and the result is that it damaged my docking station's connector also.. Also i noticed that the connector on the TF is moving "a lot" on the right side..
I've already emailed the ASUS support and waiting for a reply, but..has anyone else experienced something like this before?